Friday, September 26, 2014

Life update!

Wow im behind!

Well for starters, my last 9 weeks of pregnancy were pretty normal.  A few braxton hicks here and there, one trip to the hospital for a couple bags of fluids and only one panic attack thinking I was going into preterm labor at 35 weeks! I worked until I was 38 weeks pregnant, only 3 days a week for the last 2 weeks, per babies orders. Luckily my boss was amazing through the whole thing and basically let me make my own schedule.

On February 24th we had our last centering class/appointment and was 75% effaced and dilated to a 1 and they could feel his head! I let my mom know and we decided to keep our plans the same and just take it easy until she got here on the 26th.  I wanted to have some maternity pictures but didnt want to pay for them, so we just planned on having my mom take some for us down on the beach when she got there. Once she got here we hurry and loaded in the car so we could some pictures before it got to dark and so we still had time to grab some dinner afterwards. We decided to eat at Ruby's,  the obly downside was walking to the end of the pier 39 1/2 weeks pregnant! I was feeling a little crampy but it didnt phase me because I figured it was just from all of the walking, so I ignored it.  We ate dinner and headed home. Jake had just switched from the graveyard shift to the early morning shift and had to get up at 3 am so he went to bed and mom and I stayed up and chatted and edited some pictures.  Around 11 we called it a night and I attempted sleeping. At 1 I woke up feeling crampy but couldnt decide if it was how I was laying, gas pain, how declan was laying or if I was going into labor.  So I laid there for about 30 minutes before deciding I could very well be in labor, so I woke up my mom and told her what was going on, sat on my yoga ball for about 20 minutes and started feeling contractions enough to where I could time them.  They started out really close, at 1.5-2 minutes apart but werent lasting very long. So we called the hospital and they told me to wait as long as I could before coming in. I woke up jake and told him it was baby time and that he needed to call his command and let them know while I was in thw shower.  As im about to get in he says "so..do you just want me to go to work and you can call and let me know whats going on?" Hahaha he is lucky I wasnt dying yet! Once I told him straight up call lt and tell him im having a baby, he realized I was serious. At about 3 we were finally headed out the door, and my contractions were getting much worse.

When we got to the hospital I could barely walk and had to stop a handfull of times before we made it to labor and delivery, when they checked me I was only at a 3 but my water had broke so I was admitted!  Between 4 and 7 I thought I was going to die. My contractions were just constant and I couldnt breath at all, and had only progressed to a 4, not far enough for an epidural.  They luckily gave me pain killer to hold me over but only lasted about 20 minutes.  But lucky me, my nurse was amazing and made them call the anesthesiologist and he gave me the epidural even though I wasnt at a 5 yet. Holy best thing ever! They gave me another dose of pain killers because I still couldnt breath through contractions, so I didnt feel anything with my epidual being placed. It started working immediately and worked wonders the rest of labor and delivery!

After the epidural my blood pressure started to drop and I stopped progressing so they gave me a dose of pitocin and within an hour progressed from a 5 to 9 1/2! They told me they would give me another hour and I would start pushing around 10.  Pushing was the most exhausting thing I have ever done. Everyone kept saying he looked and felt between 7-8 lbs, and then his head got stuck on my pelvic bone. It took 2 hours of pushing in various positions to finally get him unstuck. By then I was exhausted and had heart burn from hell and just wanted him out. Once his head was out I tried not to look and focus on pushing his shoulders out, because I knew once I saw him I would start crying and be useless.  And that happened. The doctor had to pull and twist him out because I couldnt push anymore! But after 2 1/2 hours of pushing, our sweet baby boy was born on February 27th at 12:19 pm and weighed a whopping 9lbs 8oz. Everyones jaw hit the floor and they weighed him twice. Everyone was convinced he was 7-8 lbs and he looked about 8lbs.

We got to snuggle him for an hour before they toom him to clean him up and finished fixing me up.  Thanks to the 2 1/2 hours and 9lb 8oz prize at the end, I had a really rough recovery,  and even tore an artery! It was great fun.

We stayed in the hospital until saturday and then were welcomed home by my mom, dad, brother and grandma! After dad, Braden and grandma left, Jake's brother Joey and his wife Rachel came out, and then Laci came out and took declans newborn pictures for us.

Since then, we ha e just been enjoying averyday with our sweet boy. He is now 7 months old and weighs 20lbs 10oz and it 28in long! He is so dang cute and has the biggest personality.  He can sit up by himself and rolls all over the place. He has almost figured out crawling and loves bath time! He is so fun and we are so blessed to be his parents.

Also this weekend we are finally moving back to Utah! Jake is veerping out of the Marine Corps a few months early so we get to leave California now instead of later!

Life has treated us well, and we cant wait to see what the future holds!

Thursday, January 16, 2014

32 and 33 Weeks

32 Weeks



little coopy is already loves cuddling with baby declan! 





little man is growing like a weed! I cant believe that we are already at 33 weeks! this pregnancy is flying by, only a month and a half to go til our due date, its surreal that we will be parents soon.  Declan is super active and my belly now looks like its doing the wave when he moves.  Sleep is definitely a thing of the past,  the first 2 hours of sleep are good, but after the first bathroom break, I only toss and turn and have heartburn from hell.  Its horrible and it never goes away! this little guy better have a head full of hair when he gets here! 




Also, we got our crib!  We finally started putting the nursery together and it was pretty exciting! only a few other things to do and were almost ready for our sweet baby boy to get here!  We cant wait to meet him and see what he looks like and get to know his personality.  We love him so much already and im just ready for him to get here.  I miss sleeping on my belly haha

Saturday, December 28, 2013

Utah, Christmas and 30 weeks!


 We got to spend Christmas in Utah with my family! It was amazing, and so needed.
Cooper was obsessed with the shower, not sure why haha but every time someone was in the bathroom, the shower door had to be open and he would just go in and lay down or lick up any water left in there. hes a freak.
Braden has a ridiculous beard that he wears, and I couldn't resist, I had to put it on Coop haha, it was pretty hilarious. 




We had planned my baby shower around our trip and had it on Dec. 19th and the church.  It was a lot of fun, but kinda crazy because mom and I did everything, luckily we had aunt Lonnie and grandma Debbie to help us out!
We played baby jeopardy, whats in your purse, and did wishes for baby Declan.
 Since we did it at 6, we decided we better feed everyone, so we had a crepe bar with hashbrowns and sausage, and then did a hot chocolate and apple cider bar for drinks! 
Jake even came and hung out the whole time! I think he was more excited than I was for the shower :)





The next night, mom, dad, Jake and I went up to Salt Lake.  We stayed at the Grand America, so we could feel like rich people ;) Had dinner at the Little America Steak House, and man was it yummy!  After dinner we went and saw the temple lights at the Salt Lake Temple.  When we were checking in to our room, we saw Aaron Eckhart!  We didn't have the guts to go talk to him, so we just stood in the corner and had a major fan girl moment. Not one ounce or shame at all!  After freezing to death we headed back to the hotel to warm up in the most amazing bath tub ever!! We then slept on a big cloud of softness and comfy! 

The next morning we got up and got ready, headed to Le Bon Vi, the bakery at the Grand America and got some delicious Macarons for the ride.  We went and had lunch at the Brick Oven and then went to the mall to kill some time.  Big mistake! there were sooo many people there, and it was pretty lame.  
After that we went to Fetal Fotos and got to see Declan!  And I may be a little biased, but I have one cute baby growing!  He has a head full of hair and big chubby cheeks!  but he was being a little butt and kept his face right up against the wall of my uterus so his face was hard to see sometimes and his little nose was all squished, but still adorable as ever! 







This is all edible!




The rest of the week, we just hung out at the house with the family.  Jake and mom made cookies and chex mix, and Jake tried to burn the house down. luckily mom was there to keep him in line haha. 



Cooper was crazy as ever, wasn't quite sure about the snow, and his poor little paws got raw and blistered from the cold, but he did have his sweet moments, helping mama do kick counts, and the little monster sure missed grandpa and snuggled up with him when ever he could!  And when he wasn't tormenting Jaxson and Sophee, he was a snuggle bug, or attacking every toy in the house!





Jake decided that he needed to up my mom and get a 100 oz mug from maverick, because a regular sized cup is obviously WAY to small haha.

I also am officially part of the Stipe/McCann family, I got my very own nutcracker from grammy and papa!



We also reached 30 weeks in our pregnancy!!! I can't believe that I am already 3/4 done being pregnant.  It has went by sooo fast I can't believe it.  I feel great, but also feel pretty huge.  Its harder to get comfortable, and breathing is extremely difficult.  Declan gets really active and likes to kick right into my ribs making it even harder to breath.  But I love being pregnant, it's such a crazy feeling, and still really surreal.  I can't wait to meet my baby boy, and get to know him and not just his movements.



On Christmas, mom and dad spoiled us, they got me a brand new sewing machine, and got Jake some house slippers, a huge memory card for his phone, and a diaper changing kit.  It was pretty hilarious, but hey, he's going to need all the help he can get! After opening presents, we went up to grandma Debbie and Grandpa Monte's to visit with them for a little bit,  luckily for us, the whole family showed up so we didn't to make a million stops!  After that, we hit gradma LuDean and grandpa Don for a minute, went home and ate a small lunch before heading back over to grandma and grandpa's to have Prime Rib with the Parish family for Christmas dinner.




Soph could hardly contain her excitement :)


Unfortunately we had to head home the next morning, because Jake had to check back in for work.
I wish we could have stayed longer, and neither of us can wait until Jake's contract is up and we can move back to Utah and be close to our family again.  Its even crazier to think that the next time we see my family, we will be parents!  We can't wait for this new chapter, and I'm even more excited that I get to go on this crazy journey with my best friend!





Tuesday, December 17, 2013

28 and 29 weeks

Week 28 was great!! Ended it with hearing our sweet babies heart beat! Looking forward to this saturday, doing a 3d ultrasound amd get to see our baby boys face!!! Also get to experience it with my parents! Yay for the holidays!!

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

27 Weeks


 
How far along: 27 weeks, officially in my 3rd trimester!
Gender: all boy
Wait gain: about 12ish pounds
Maternity clothes: nothing but!
Stretch marks: not yet, still hoping ill get away with none!
Belly button in or out: still in, but very shallow, starting to think its going to stay in
Sleep: eh, some nights are better than others
Best moment this week: lots of movement
Worst moment this week: horrible back, hip and leg pain
Miss anything: being able to bend over!
Movement: quite a bit!
Cravings: soda. a lot of soda haha
Queasy or sick: nope!
Looking forward to: dr's appointment in a week and a half, and going home for Christmas!
 
Loving being pregnant, and cant believe how fast its going! Im seriously having a hard time grasping that I am almost done, and ill get to meet my little man in the next 13 weeks! I love him so much already and cant wait to meet our sweet baby boy.
 
also, I love our little tree! its little, and it leans a little bit, but its our first tree together and we love it!



Thursday, November 28, 2013

Attitude of Gratitude

Happy Thanksgiving!!!
 
This year it was just Jake, Cooper and I celebrating, but it was perfect!
This is the sweet face that couldn't wait to get the festivities started and wouldn't leave us alone until we got out of bed.. he's lucky he's cute!
 
We spent the day just hanging out, nothing to crazy but enjoyed each others company and cooked some yummy food!
This years menu included
Turkey Roast
Mashed Potatoes and Gravy
Green Bean Casserole
Rolls
Deviled Eggs
Apple & Pecan Pie
 
It was all delicious and the only thing to make It better would have been to have our families here with us.

 
Little man even got his own tasting, and he LOVED it!

 
Then we busted out the Christmas music and put up our tree and other decorations!  Even though we won't be here for Christmas this year, we decided that we still needed to have some decorations to help get in the Christmas spirit since we don't get snow here in SoCal, it doesn't feel like winter, and definitely doesn't feel like Christmas without the décor!

 
This year we have so much to be thankful for
 
Jake
I seriously don't know how I got so lucky, but I have the best husband in the world! He works so hard for our little family, and he loves and supports me no matter what.  No one has ever made me feel as loved or as special and this guy does, and he has made me feel more beautiful in the last couple of years than I ever have before!  I love you baby!
 
Cooper
This little dude has brought a lot of grief into our lives, but has brought us even more joy and laughter.  He is such a character and so funny to just watch.  We love him and glad we decided to go into the pet store that day!
 
Baby Declan
Even though we haven't got to meet our little man yet, we are so thankful for him!  He is a blessing and has made our relationship so much better and stronger!  I am also so thankful that I have had such an amazing pregnancy so far with no complications. We cant wait to meet him and be his mama and daddy!
 
Our Families
We would be living on the street without them!  They have helped us in so many ways in the last year and 3 months.  We both got lucky to have amazing families and that we married into amazing families!  We wish we could all be in the same state instead of 4 different ones, but we still feel their love no matter how many states are between us!
 
The Military
Thank You! Without the military Jake and I never would have met, and we wouldn't be here today.  Also so very thankful for the selfless sacrifice our men and women make each and everyday to fight for our country no matter how corrupt the people running it are.  Im so proud to know so many of these brave men and women.
 
Our home, our cars, my job, the stability of Jakes job, that I can have children, laughter and love! There is so many more things that I cant even list, but I am so very thankful for the beautiful life that I was giving, the choices that I have made that have gotten me to where I am today, and for the love and support that I have always received from all of my loved ones my whole life!
 
Happy Thanksgiving from our family to yours!